Friday, November 30, 2007
Happy December all
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Manly man...boy
- "B" sound. At first this was an unsophisticated full bottom lip sound but it's progressed to an adult "B" sound that requires little effort. We think he' gifted. :-)
- Sitting. Can sit with relative ease. He falls over infrequently when his big head gets going too fast in one direction.
- Peek-a-boo game. Hadden's been doing this for a while but now it's hilarious. At first I was hiding my whole body but then I realized that just hiding my face with my hands was just as funny. Apparently, dad has some peek-a-boo learning to do.
- Eating solid food. Mom has been making various purees (squash, peas, pear, carrots, millet, quinoa, yams) and Hadden LOVES them. He can't seem to eat fast enough. On the down side, this has made crapping a bit more difficult (if we were to spin it I guess I would say it's now more "rewarding").
Hadden's also gaining dexterity. It's fun to watch him play with objects now because he tends to twirl them slowly in his hands to see all the different aspects of a 3-D object. We got him a set of rubber blocks that I can stack (he knocks them over) and he can chew but his favorite toys are still kitchen related, including spoon (both wooden and regular flatware spoon), whisk, spatula and anything else out of the utensil drawer.
(Hadden being manly and driving a tractor with dad)
Today we went to a baby show put on by something like the Northwest mother entrepreneur association. They had baby legs (http://www.babylegs.net/) and other stuff there including some cool blankets and bags. Hadden slept through the whole thing (a good thing) but mom and dad spent some $. I am amazed at the engineering and art that goes into modern baby things. I doubt you could find anything this cool at Babies R Us. I was one of the few men at this event but that's not totally unusual.
In 2 weeks we will all be heading down to my sister's house (auntie Michelle) to see cousins Haze and Kash over Thanksgiving. Bonus, Leslie (Yvonne's sister) and Karl (husband, uncle and great guy) will be there too. Should be fun.
steve
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Almost 1/2 a year (by Hadden)
I hear that my English relatives are big rugby players/fans. Others tell me that all the good rugby national teams are south of the equator.
As you can see, I've gained lots of weight in the last few months. Mom and Dad have not had me officially weighed yet but I'm about 19 lbs and 28 inches - a chunk. My head's big enough that it's still difficult to sit up for long periods of time because once that head gets going in a certain direction it's tough to arrest it. I have gained some new skills recently:
- Saying things like, "da, da, da, da..." and other basic jibber-jabber
- Sitting in my stroller without the baby bucket (like a big baby)
- Sleeping in my car seat (I did several hours on the way back from camping at Icicle Creek near Levenworth, WA)
- Bulking up (just look at my 'Boks photo). My Aunt Michelle says I should go on the Atkins program.
Despite the numerous baby play toys I have my favorite things to play with are hair, newspaper, spoons, plastic chip bag clips, straws, beer bottles and pretty much anything else that isn't mine. I'm also a pretty big sports fan but I'm not sure I've had a choice in the matter so far. I've been to 1 Mariners baseball game, 2 Husky football games and 2 Husky volleyball games. I also like going for walks because I love being outside and there is so much to look at there. Shopping is also great - especially at the open market, which is sadly done until next Spring - because there are also many different things to look at.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Hawaii

Sunday, July 22, 2007
Back from Denver (from Hadden - sort of)
- Made it to Denver and back.
- Took a huge dump in the Seatac airport before I left (my parents consider big dumps "accomplishments" - should not be too hard to impress these idiots)
- Screamed every time I got put in my car seat; affectionately known as the "bucket".
- Kept Mom up late on several occasions. Actually, that's too easy to really be considered an accomplishment.
- Grabbing stuff. I'm getting pretty good at grabbing stuff. Mom say's I do it mostly with my left hand (my right hand pretty much stays in a clenched fist no matter what I try). Also, she thinks it's funny that I raise my right leg when I'm concentrating. I see no problem with this.
- Went to 2 outdoor concerts. I've already been to 3 concerts in my life and I'm only 3 months old. I'm such a music person although I think it's okay to scream in the middle of the concert if you feel like it.
Everyone totally looked at me in the Denver Airport - I guess because I was getting a carriage ride to the gate. Mom and Dad say I was a good baby on the way back to Seattle. Although, I suspect that their rating of my behavior is more a reflection of their ability to deal with my needs rather than any concious decisions I make about my behavior. If they want to project their ability to deal with a baby onto my "behavior" I say, "whatever floats your boat". Give me some milk.
I am looking forward to my trip to Hawaii in August and am trying to get a tan and some new swimwear before I go.
-HTM
Saturday, July 7, 2007
Closing in on 3
- Went to his first baseball game - saw the Mariners win (figuratively - he probably didn't see them at all - but he did see a bunch of folks in his immediate vicinity).
- Went to a Madaleine Pereoux concert at Chateau Ste. Michelle. Not bad, we got there just before she started and he was pretty good for the whole thing. Again, don't think he saw Madaleine but perhaps he heard some of the music.
- Hadden laughs. He can laugh now...or at least chuckle. That helps mom and dad.
- Hadden goes out to dinner. He's been to a variety of baby-friendly restaurants including the Barking Dog, Gorgeous Georges, and a pizza place in Wallingford.
So this stuff seems to be more about mom and dad but that's okay. Usually we know what he's on about when he's crying now (or at least we make up good reasons, e.g., he's tired, he's hungry, he's bored), which helps. Top three things used to stop Hadden fussing:
- Eating. Obvious, enough said. Although sometimes he fussed while eating.
- Crack ball. The exercise bouncy ball that we got from Sandy and Peter (our neighbors with 1-yr old twins) is so effective Yvonne calls it the "crack ball".
- Walking up and down stairs. Perhaps he enjoys the thrill that mom or dad could tumble down the stairs at any time. Or, perhaps he likes the bouncing motion (see #2).
- Walk around the neighborhood. You must carry him (placing in the stroller doesn't work).
Other Hadden features: he doesn't like his car seat and doesn't particularly like riding in the car, likes to face out when held, enjoys staring at himself in the mirror (is it narcissistic if he doesn't even know it's him he's staring at?), usually dislikes diaper changes, has a small bald spot on the back of his head, likes to 'boobie sleep" (sleep right after feeding very near to mom).
Next week - Denver! (and then a visit in August to Grandma/Grandpa and Aunt Michelle and cousins Kash and Haze in Hawaii).
TTFN...
Sunday, June 17, 2007
The Smorgasborg of Life
- Smiling continues at a greater pace
- Looking at himself in the mirror and smiling (can babies have "vanity" yet?)
- Hiccuping (all babies manage this one)
- Watching TV - it's bad but if we're in the TV room and he's there he usually turns his head as much as he can to see the TV. Haven't figured out any favorite programming but we're hoping for Hawaii Five-O and ESPN.
Father's day was good all around. First, Yvonne made a coffee cake for breakfast and both Hadden and Yvonne got me shirts. Then, I got to play softball and come home to have a dinner from the barbeque. Despite it being Father's Day, it was still mostly about Hadden. I'm sure Yvonne can attest after her first Mother's Day.
Sunday, June 3, 2007
My Struggle (again, as told to Steve)
It's been a couple of weeks since the last post. I'm now 7.5 weeks old (52 days). That's a long time in baby weeks and even longer in dog years (I think).
Check out my new "group" at Snapfish. All my photos are at: http://scootermuench.snapfish.com/snapfish
Dad says you can go there and view all my pictures, post comments, upload pictures of your own, and waste more time than you mean to. You need this password to get in: "scooter".
Of significant note, I met my grandparents on Dad's side last week. Grandpa Bill and Grandma Jane flew out from Hawaii to see me over Memorial Day weekend. I gave them the full repetoire; some fussing, some smiles, some pee/poop and some sleep. I seem to be losing my touch because while they were here they got the back and front patios weeded, a bunch of new plants planted and the planter strip on the curb weeded. Normally, I pride myself on preventing folks from getting stuff done. I am anti-productivity in general. Anyway, I love my grandparents and I hear they live in Hawaii. They also told me about my cousins in Las Vegas - I've got to get me down there and roll some bones with the extended family crew. Hey, Haze is 1 year old today! Shout out to Haze and keep on truckin'.
- Drooling (not sure it's a skill but I can do it now)
- Hand sucking (ditto the above comment)
- Smiling: frequency is up - I smile more now - just not for the camera that often.
- Bodily functions: consistent, although Dad gave up tracking them on Trixie Tracker.
- Sleep: about the same. I still don't like my crib or even the co-sleeper next to Mom and Dad's bed. At this point, they should really start calling it the Muench family bed...because that's what it's become.
- Height: taller now. Something like 24 inches - the 2-ft milestone!
- Weight: Issues here. I'm still only a feather over 10 lbs. Should be more, like 11 or 12 lbs. Mom and Dad are trying some things in concert with Molly (my ND) to bulk me up. People think I'm either (1) a newborn - which I resent...hey, I'm 7+ weeks old, don't lump me together with those rookies, or (2) a premie - hey, I wasn't born early; I was born late. Stay tuned on this one. Gotta gain some weight some how. Perhaps M+D will need to supplement for a while, perhaps not. We'll see.
- Fussiness: consistent, about 3 units/day. Perhaps a bit down. I think M+D found out some of that fussiness was related to the weight gain (or non-gain) issue. Hey, I've got to sumo up here.
- Baths: more frequent now. I like the bath or shower part. Really dislike the getting out and drying off part.
- Baby wipe warmer: Good gracious, I never thought M+D would buy one but they did. It's a bit nicer on my bum during a change but hasn't really changed my attitude about changes like they'd hoped.
TTFN,
Saturday, May 19, 2007
Hadden's Memoirs (as told to Steve Muench)
I am now over 10 lbs based on my growth trend and the weight at my last doctor's checkup. My doctor is Molly Litton at Emerald City clinic. Her place is close by and mom and dad already know her, which is good. She's an ND (naturopathic doctor) vs. and MD so I get more exotic stuff that's, in general, less harmful to me. Currently, I'm taking acidophilus and mom's taking cod liver oil and some other stuff.
Mom and dad tried cloth diapers on me but I soundly defeated them by blowing out every diaper they put on me. After about 3 or 4 days of this they got tired of changing all my clothes every time I peed or pooped. I'm back in Pampers now (which, blow out much less than the Huggies equivalent) but they said they are going to try cloth again later on when I'm bigger although I can't imagine getting much bigger than 10 lbs. That's huge...I've got to start working out more. I hear flailing your arms and legs around while crying is a good low-impact arobic workout. Similar to swimming - especially if you don't know how to swim.
Ta-ta for now,
HTM.
Saturday, May 5, 2007
3 Weeks

The photos above are on the Snapfish account. You can download these two and a shot of him in his pampers and you've got a kind of an "I see London, I see France, I see Hadden's underpants" collection.
Today, we went to a baby wearing class to get some badly needed instruction on how to "wear" Haddy in slings, packs, etc. After class we bought a Moby D (http://www.mobywrap.com/) and wrapped him up. After a trip to the coffee shop (Yvonne's request) and a trip to REI for their annual sale I must say he's done well in the Moby. 3+ hours and not a complaint!
Right now he's just finished looking at something out the front window again (I think it's just the light and the contrast it creates) and is now eating again. I am thinking that because he slept all day he may not allow mom and dad to watch a movie tonight in the basement. We'll see. He's got a doctor's appointment on Tuesday (routine) so perhaps more drivel then.
steve
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
More of the Everyday
Yvonne is doing better now but is still recovering from the C-section surgery - still not allowed to lift anything heavier than a baby in a baby carrier. Leslie (her sister) is here this week so they are doing work and taking care of Hadden during the day while I go in to school to try and catch up on all the stuff that's passed me by the last couple of weeks. I'm trying to stay home on Tuesdays and Thursdays (I teach the other days) and so far I think it's doable.
We are thankful Hadden is a good sleeper. Typically, he'll hit the sack between 11pm and midnight and sleep until the 3-4am hour. Then he'll go down again until about 8-9am. That gives us enough sleep to carry on...usually.
Thanks to everyone who has stopped by, helped, given us food or baby clothes or extra pampers or baby toys. It's all much appreciated. We are still working through all the food and it's great. Tonight was enchiladas from Cathy, last night was chicken in a tomato sauce with potatos from Sara and the night before was pulled pork sandwiches from Bill and Anne. We have stockpiled a few frozen casseroles ourselves and will begin working through the remainder of those too. We have a great baked bean recipe frozen but are a bit afraid of eating it all and then watching Scooter get all "windy" on us. Some of his farts and poops are quite impressive - no pictures, I promise. Right now he's sleeping with mom upstairs and I just got home from a soccer game and finished dinner. Grandma Wendy says he changes every day and I'd say she' right. Can't wait to see him tomorrow.
steve
Thursday, April 19, 2007
1 Week Old
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Some Fun Links
Birth stuff: http://www1.snapfish.com/thumbnailshare/AlbumID=159917736/a=19125389_19125389/t_=19125389
First month: http://www1.snapfish.com/thumbnailshare/AlbumID=159917738/a=19125389_19125389/t_=19125389
Also, I've started a trial of Trixie Tracker, an online service that tracks mindless stuff about your baby. Actually, as you may know, it's useful to track these things early on. Anyway, take a look at: http://go.trixietracker.com/site/hadden
The password to get in is "scooter". How many poopy diapers has Hadden had in his life? Eight so far (out of a total of 24 diaper changes). You get the idea.
steve
Friday, April 13, 2007
The rest of the birth (part 2 of a 2 part series)
We talked about the distinct possibility of a C-section if the baby's heartrate went down and didn't recover and the timing of it. In the end, we decided to go into the operating room and push there. After a couple of tries, the baby was doing okay but it just seemed like we were in a position where a C-section was the better option. In my mind I was pretty sure that was where we were headed when we talked several hours ago. I give the doctor credit for trying for a vaginal birth.
The procedure was over quickly - it's very cold in the operating room (OR) and I hung out with "upper Yvonne" while the doctor worked on "lower Yvonne". We were separated by small curtain. Hadden came out fine and I got to hold him a moment later. They stitched up Yvonne with hadden lying by her face and we went back to the labor and delivery room where Wendy (Yvonne's mom) and Sara (cousin) visited for an hour or two. We are now in the post-partum wing of the hospital and will be here until Sunday as Yvonne recovers from the surgery. Everyone's doing well and sleeping a lot. Yvonne has graduated from ice chips (post surgery) to orange juice and graham crackers, Steve has graduated from bench to roll-away bed. Both good things. The cats (Kent and Adele) have no idea what they are in for...
Vital statistics:
Name: Hadden Thomas Muench (not "Scooter")
Birth time: 9:26 p.m., April 12th, 2007.
Birth weight: 8 lbs, 6.2 oz.
Height (I prefer to call it that although most say "length"): 20.5 inches
Love to everyone and thanks for the support and love back. It's all appreciated and makes me thing Hadden will grow up in a world that has a hell of a lot going for it - despite what you may read in the newspapers from time to time. People are, in general, good, love is alive and human life is a great thing. Especially when it's your son.
Love, steve
Thursday, April 12, 2007
My delivery story...so far (as interpreted by Steve)
Nothing was happening on the labor front so we checked in to Swedish First Hill and were set to get a Cervidal supository (it's got proglastigens) to help ripen the cervix. Proglastigen is the hormone thought to help with this ripening. This was going to happen in the Triage area but that area (where all check-ins for births go first) was full so we went to an antipartum room (before labor). While there Scotter had a deceleration ("decel") where his heart rate goes down at the end of a contraction (these contractions were really minor - Yvonne only felt mild discomfort). That immediately got us into a "labor and delivery" room, which is much nicer.
In the L&D room Yvonne got the Cerividal, which is supposed to take 12 hours to work. So we waited 12 hours, which put us at 1am. When done, nothing much - still at 1cm but ripening. During those 12 hours we had a couple more decels, which prompted the doctor on call to suggest Pitocin (an artificial form of oxytocin - the hormone that causes contractions and other stuff like "love") to start contractions and see if Scotter could tolerate them. If not, C-section. Well, contractons started and he was fine during them. It just seemed to be certain positions that caused the decels so Yvonne avoided those positions.
Fast forward to 12 noon on April 12th. Contractions were 60-90 seconds long and 2-3 minutes apart - and they hurt like hell (contractions, and especially ones from Pitocin, are known for that). After a few barfs from the pain (REALLY not pleasant) and Yvonne's water breaking after a Doctor check of her dilation (disappointingly still at 1 cm) we ordered an epidural, which was adminstered at about 1pm by a nice English anesthesiologist. Worked great. Yvonne's feeling better. Currently, we've got something in to spit back some clean saline solution into her uterus to provide Scooter with a bit of a cushion as well as all the usual monitors.
So here we sit, waiting out contractions and dilations. Where do we go from here? Tune in soon. So far the only part of our birth plan that we followed is that we want to have a birth. I guess that's the important part. We are, however, realists so we're doing fine right now.
steved
Sunday, April 8, 2007
Happy Easter - still no baby

